THINGS TO SAY TO KEEP THE PEACE

Keeping the peace at Thanksgiving (or any holiday celebration) can be tough. Here are some surefire things to say that can help!

“Thank you for your opinion. I’ll think about it.” When you receive unsolicited advice at a family gathering, just smile and respond with this casual conversation terminator.

“Is this a good time for you?” Consider using this line at work, too. Your boss and coworkers will appreciate it.

“Would you like my thoughts?” One of the biggest complaints kids have about parents is that they constantly issue orders and judgments. Ask your child if she wants to hear what you have to say. If she says yes, it means she is ready to listen. If she says no, then button your lip. This works for adult family members, too.

“Why don’t we get the facts?” Some people tend to argue about anything and everything, including things that can be easily resolved. If you find yourself in a dispute , then look up the answer.

“I need your help. Can you please...?” Rather than accusing the person of being lazy or inconsiderate, ask her for what you want and be specific. People are not mind readers.

“Let’s wait on this until we have more information.” Know when to table a discussion.

“What did you mean by that?” Sometimes asking the right question is all it takes to avoid an argument.

“I don’t like that, so why don’t we do this instead?” This is how to complain with impact. Rather than nagging your mate about a problem, focus on finding a solution for the future.

“I’m sorry you’re upset.” Dishing out criticism won’t change a thing. A compassionate response will help you both move forward.

“Let me get back to you.” And then make sure that you do.


And my current phrase I learned is "What else could that mean?" Whatever the circucmstance, it allows you to be non judgemental until you know what is truly happening.